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Millions of people in this
country drink alcohol and take illegal drugs to be more social and to “feel
good.” However, 17 million of these people are considered problem drinkers.
Ten million are considered alcoholic. Four million are addicted to other substances.
Treatment professionals do not advocate “prohibition” for those who are not
alcoholic. Moderation is always the key. However, for those who are chemically
dependent, abstinence is the beginning to the road to recovery. This section
of Guide to Feeling Better will look at the issue of substance use and abuse
with adolescents and adults.
Alcoholism and addiction to other substances is a chronic, progressive disease, which can be treated but not cured. The disease causes both physical and psychological addiction. This disease is NOT a weakness in moral character. Like recovery from other diseases, it is a process, not an event. Like other diseases, most people with an addiction will relapse one or more times before sobriety remains constant. As with any serious illness, the earlier it is treated the more likely recovery will occur.
Even parents who “do all
the right things” may face the addiction of a child. However, here are some
steps you can take to minimize the possibility.
1. Examine your own relationship with alcohol and other drugs. Your children
will model your behavior.
2. Be open with your children about any family history of substance abuse. Explain
that a family history makes all people in the family predisposed to the disease
of addiction.
3. Give your children the message that underage drinking and illegal substance
use will not be tolerated.
4. Give your children consequences when you know they have been using.
5. Know your children’s friends and their parents.
6. Do not allow your child to spend the night or attend a party that has no
adult supervision.
7. Know that supervising a party of underage drinking is illegal!
8. However, searching your child’s room for evidence of substance use is perfectly
legal!
9. Set curfews and know your child’s whereabouts. (Just because you can reach
them by cell phone does not mean you know where they are.)
10. Educate yourself about substances and their signs and symptoms.
11. When your child exhibits signs of depression and/or anxiety or other mental
health disorder, find help promptly. Many teens begin experimenting with substances
when trying to “medicate” an existing condition.
According to the National Association of the Mentally Ill (NAMI) more than half of young persons with a substance abuse diagnosis also have a diagnosable mental illness. These teens cannot respond to “just say no” tactics. Therapy and medication, supplemented by support groups is the most effective treatment.
· Abrupt changes
in attendance, quality of work, work output, grades and discipline
· Unusual flare-ups or outbreaks of temper
· Withdrawal from responsibility
· General change in overall attitude
· Deterioration of physical appearance and grooming
· Wearing of sunglasses at inappropriate times
· Continual wearing of long-sleeved clothing particularly in hot weather
· Association with known substance abusers, or suddenly popular with
new friends who are older and unknown to family members
· Unusual borrowing of money – or stealing – from friends, co-workers
and family members
· Secretiveness or desperation for money
· Inappropriate overreaction to mild criticism
· Use of odd words
· Paranoia
· Car accidents and other accidents, like falling down
· Chronic dishonesty
· Smoking cigarettes
· Heavy use of over-the-counter medications to reduce eye irritation,
nasal irritation and bad breath
· Secretive behavior regarding actions and possessions; poorly concealed
attempts to avoid attention and suspicion such as frequent trips to storage
rooms, restrooms, basement, etc.
· Abrupt change in behavior
· Shortened attention span such as slurred speech, jumbled thinking
· Deteriorating judgment and short-term memory loss
· Any change in eating behavior that would cause rapid weight gain or
loss
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Extreme behavioral changes such as hallucinations, violence, and unconsciousness
· Unprescribed or unidentifiable pills
· Strange articles that might be used as drug paraphernalia
· Slow staggering walk, poor physical coordination
· Change in sleep pattern
· Red, watery eyes; pupils very large or small; blank stare
· “I don't care” attitude
· Going out almost every night
Adolescence is a time of physical and attitudinal changes. Some of the signs and symptoms of drug use/abuse are typical adolescent behavior. However, if your gut reaction is that your child’s behavior is unusual, or if your child exhibits several of these signs/symptoms, a substance abuse assessment is warranted.
When parents become suspicious, many want to rush to have a urine drug screen done. Your family physician can do this. However, since many substances do not stay in their system long, an assessment by a qualified substance abuse professional is recommended.
· Social use of
substances occurs more heavily and more often.
· Blackouts (temporary loss of memory which is different from passing
out) occur more frequently.
· Will hide or sneak use of substances from family and friends.
· Inability to quit using once starting.
· Using excuses for use such as pressures from job.
· Needing a substance to get going in the morning.
· May develop anti-social behavior
· Loss of friends, family and job
· Seeking medical attention because their use is causing physical and/or
mental problems.
· May go in binges of using substances for long periods of time.
· May get the shakes or tremors.
· Continued denial that a problem exists.
· Problems with the legal system (alcohol and drug related charges like
DUI and possession)
If you recognize these symptoms in yourself, see a qualified substance abuse professional immediately. If you recognize these symptoms in a loved one, an intervention is warranted. A qualified substance abuse therapist can help you organize and facilitate an intervention to encourage your loved one to seek treatment. If your loved one refuses, attend Al-Anon and seek therapy to guide you in how to deal with the situation.
When
you suspect that your child is using substances, or you believe you have a problem,
go to a qualified professional for an assessment. Because of the prevalence
of co-occurring mental health disorders in youth and adults, you and/or your
child should receive a thorough mental health assessment by a qualified behaviorial/mental
health professional. A complete physical is also recommended.
The type of treatment recommended will vary depending on the progression of the disease and other complicating factors such as the presence of a mental illness. Some youth and young adults are simply experimenting and classes in prevention and/or psychotherapy are appropriate. If substance use is causing a variety of life problems, an intensive outpatient program will probably be recommended. Inpatient and residential treatment are also options.
The most effective treatment for addiction is entering a substance abuse program, plus the support of groups such as Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) and Narcotics Anonymous (NA). Some people prefer other support groups (see Resources). A very small minority can simply quit with no support. Those with a dual diagnosis (addiction plus another mental health disorder) may require psychotherapy and medication. For addicts, recovery means that sobriety must become a way of life.
Many people think that simply not using substances will ensure their recovery. However, recovery often means a complete lifestyle change, such as finding new social activities that do not revolve around using and new friends who will encourage a sober lifestyle. Even those who do not have a dual-diagnosis can benefit from the support of therapy to help with these major life changes.
Adolescents need additional support in their recovery. Parents can show their support by not having alcoholic beverages in the home and by not drinking in front of their child. Participating in the family component of child’s treatment is also important. Schools can show their support by understanding that addiction is a disease like any other and to give the student the support they would for a student with any other disease.
Addiction is referred to as a family disease because all members of the family are affected. Many people who have lived with an addict often feel responsible for their loved one’s addiction. Their behavior becomes controlling as they seek to bring some order in their chaotic lives. Al-Anon and Alateen can support the loved ones of addicts in changing their behavior to more healthy ways of coping. Therapy, in conjunction, with these support groups, is also helpful.
| Substance
Abuse Assistance Resources & Support Groups | |
| Alcoholics
Anonymous (AA) Their primary purpose is to stay sober and help other alcoholics achieve sobriety. 513-351-0422 (Cincinnati) http://www.aacincinnati.org 859-491-7181 (N. KY.) |
Al-Anon/Alateen
To help families and friends of alcoholics recover from the effects of living with the problem drinking of a relative or friend. 513-784-2444 or 513-771-5959 http://www.al-anon.org |
| Narcotics
Anonymous (NA) NA is a nonprofit fellowship or society of men and women for who drugs has become a major problem. 513-820-2947 http://www.naohio.org |
Recovery
Resource Center, Inc. Their mission is to increase recovery from substance abuse by promoting knowledge of and access to a variety of self-help programs, including AA, such as Women for Sobriety, LifeRing Secular Recovery, SMART Recovery and Rational Recovery. 513-761-7353 http://www.rrci.net |
| Alcoholism
Council of the Cincinnati Area, NCADD Provides information and referral, assessment, intervention, case management, counseling, education, and prevention programs to alcohol and drug abusers and their families. Training/consultation to health care, social service agencies, businesses, and the community. 513-281-7880 |
St.
Elizabeth Behavioral Health Center & St. Elizabeth Holistic Health Center 200 Medical Village Drive Edgewood, KY 41017 www.stelizabeth.com Outpatient Behavioral Health Services Outpatient Chemical Dependency Partial hospitalization Chemical Dependency Acu-detox (acupuncture) Support Groups |
| Kentucky
Division of Substance Abuse Has an online resource directory for adolescent and adult treatment centers throughout the state. http://mhmr.ky.gov/sa/ |
NorthKey
Regional Prevention Center Provides classes for underage DUI offenders, prevention/education programs for youth, programs for pregnant women who use substances and training for prevention facilitators. Also have library of information on substances. 859-283-0952 |
| Local Treatment
Resources for Adolescents and Adults For a complete list of resources contact the Division of Substance Abuse web site. http://dmhmrs.chr.state.ky.us/sa |
Youth Substance
Abuse Treatment Collaborative (YSATC) Provides referral to prevention and treatment of teen substance abuse services, as well as providing and facilitating training on teen substance abuse for community members and service providers. 859-283-9222 |
The
Christ Hospital |
The Fort Hamilton
Hospital Alcohol and Drug Treatment Services Intensive outpatient services for adults and adolescents Hamilton 513-785-5726 Middletown 513-424-1193 www.health-alliance.com/behavioral |
| The
St. Luke Hospitals Alcohol and Drug Treatment Services |
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St. Luke Alcohol
and Drug |
The St. Luke Hospital
West 7380 Turfway Road Florence, KY 41042 859-962-5384 Outpatient alcohol and drug treatment is offered for adolescents & adults. www.health-alliance.com/behavioral |
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